Finding Strength in the Unexpected

At 58 years old, what began as a sore throat, earache, and swollen glands seemed harmless at first. Manda visited her GP, who reassured her it was likely a viral infection and advised her to return if things didn’t improve.

But Manda listened to her instincts. When the symptoms persisted, she went back. This time, she was referred to an ENT specialist and seen within three weeks. Tests revealed something she never imagined: cancer at the base of her tongue.

The news was devastating, especially as Manda had also lost her long-term partner to cancer. Surgery wasn’t an option; it would have been too radical and taken away her quality of life. Instead, Manda faced radiotherapy and chemotherapy with courage and hope. When the cancer didn’t respond as well as expected, she transitioned to palliative care—a word that felt heavy and final.

Almost five years on, Manda is living with cancer. Daily life looks very different now—being fed through a tube and coping with the lasting effects of radiotherapy have all taken a toll on her quality of life. Yet, Manda draws strength and comfort from her loved ones and the support of the Maggie’s Centre in Nottingham. She focuses on what truly matters: precious time with family and moments of calm on days when even the simplest daily tasks can be a real challenge.

“I’m grateful for the NHS and the incredible care I’ve received. They’ve given me time—time to live, love, and keep going.”

Persistent symptoms—like a sore throat that doesn’t go away—could be something more serious. If something doesn’t feel right, trust your instincts and speak to your GP. Early diagnosis saves lives.